Category Archives: Ask Toph

Attention Ladies: Steve Harvey is Wrong

Posted on September 10, 2010 by

It was brought to my attention by my friend, Amber, that Steve Harvey has been encouraging women to wait 90 days before having sex with a guy they’re dating. Um. Apparently his book, “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a … Continue reading →

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Ask Toph XXIX

Posted on August 11, 2010 by

Stop the fucking presses. 1. The next Ask Toph will be XXX and 2. I haven’t done an Ask Toph since April 1?! Have you seen my inbox? No? Well, it’s fucking stacked with readers (I have readers, don’t I?) … Continue reading →

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Ladies, Here’s 8 Dudes to Avoid

Posted on July 2, 2010 by

I’ve been talking to a lot of my single girlfriend’s about their dating lives. I don’t know, I guess I’m always curious of the playing level that other dudes are on. Frankly, what I see is appalling. And, it’s not … Continue reading →

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The New Rules of Dating?

Posted on March 10, 2010 by

I got an IM from a close girlfriend of mine today. She’s found herself newly single, and on the prowl, she provided me with her little life scenario. Basically, it’s a what to do now? Can I (she), as the … Continue reading →

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Ask Toph XXVI…

Posted on January 30, 2010 by

What a day, right? It’s Friday, we have a job… and we have shit to do. I will say this, to all my friends and readers, I’m sorry that you guys have never experience me high. It’s truly a sight … Continue reading →

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Ask Toph XXV…

Posted on January 13, 2010 by

Happy New Year everyone. You know, it’s funny, because with Roman Numerals it looks like I’ve done a lot of Ask Toph’s, but how is this only #25? That just doesn’t seem right. I guess that’s what happens when you … Continue reading →

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Ask Toph XXIV…

Posted on November 24, 2009 by

Fuck, I can’t believe I’m still counting with Roman Numerals. Does anyone even know what fucking number that is? Anyways, as you know Thanksgerie is this week, so of course I’ll be dedicating tomorrow to it. But, before we get … Continue reading →

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First Dates Rule

Posted on November 11, 2009 by

I haven’t been on a first date in fuckin’ forever. Not gonna lie, there’s something awesome about first dates, too. I mean, so many things have to go right, right? Do you pick her up? Do you meet her there? … Continue reading →

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Ask Toph XXIII…

Posted on October 29, 2009 by

I figured the best way to kick off the blog to redemption was to do an Ask Toph, right? Believe me, if you could see the TophSpeaks inbox you’d be like, “whhhhhat?” Yeah, it’s that out of control. Let’s see … Continue reading →

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Ask Toph XXII… Part II – All About Love

Posted on December 11, 2008 by

So, we’re continuing the last Ask Toph, and I’m tackling all of the emails I get about love, ladies and hitting on them. I once said that I was like Angels in the Outfield. I get you to the World … Continue reading →

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